* Switch releasing commands from a blocklist to an allowlist
This is much better as we can hardocde the crates to filter out in
one place, can selectively release certain crates easily,
and only have one command instead of the "-some" hack
* get rid of workaround no longer needed
* More makefiles
Some crates need to rewrite values when they are released in other crates. It turns out, by default we use a general config _build/release.toml. So it turns out these local-to-the-crate release.tomls were not being used unless explicitly chosen in the local-to-the-crate Makefile.toml. This removes the dead release.tomls and overrides the ones that need to edit other crates on release.
